The Covid pandemic has definitely changed a lot of plans this year. While I am thankful that we are all safe and healthy it has been disappointing to miss out on some milestones with Nolan including his first birthday with family and friends. I also wasn’t sure about a cake smash so we decided to do our own. I think it came out really cute so I figured I would share how I did mine and some tips for photographing your own first birthday cake smash at home.

Tips for photographing a first birthday Bee Cake Smash at home:
1. Pick a theme
I saw this My First Bee-Day outfit from Cuddle Sleep Dream and thought it would be a perfect spring/summer theme for a birthday party and cake smash. If you have a baby boy and don’t know about Cuddle Sleep Dream you need to check it out ASAP! I got Aiden a Save the Bees shirt from Riverbabe Threads. You will see that later in the post!

A theme doesn’t have to be elaborate. You could even do something simple like a color or vibe.
Once you have a theme you can figure out the cake you want. You could purchase one or make one yourself. I found a cute honeycomb cake mold so I made my own cake. I made two cakes that way if anything happened to the first I had a backup.
2. Select a Location/Backdrop for your Bee Cake Smash
We decided to do our cake smash outside. I thought our backyard with lots of pollinators in bloom would be the perfect backdrop. I threw a couple of small colorful plants around him for some extra color — and something else for him to interact with if we needed to distract him.

3. Select the best time to shoot for your little one’s mood and lighting
I picked an overcast day so that I didn’t have to worry so much about the time of day I was shooting because the light is generally even and complimentary. I ended up taking the pictures after the little guy’s morning nap. I gave him a few crackers before we started so he wasn’t super hungry, but I didn’t want to fill him up because I wanted him to eat the cake.

If I were to do this again, I would have used a reflector to bounce a bit more light in his face.

If you are shooting inside, pick a time of day where you have a natural light source on your little one — such as next to a window. Just make sure the light is not behind him/her. A curtain or blanket can work well for a blank/neutral background.
For the camera, I used my Canon EOS 6D with 85mm and 50 mm lenses. However, you do not need a fancy camera to take great pictures. You can capture great photos on a cell phone camera! As long as your photos are properly exposed and the lighting is good you shouldn’t need to do a ton of editing.
4. Get a variety of shots
I wanted to make sure to get a variety of shots. Some of the different shots I got include:
- Details: Tiny fingers and toes, the outfit, the cake.
- Angles: Try to get a few different angles, I did some straight on, a few below, and even a few from above.
- Different expressions: My goal is always to get a wide range of expressions (hopefully I am not the only one who thinks a good crying face is hilarious and super cute — I didn’t get one this time!). I had a lot of help from Dad and big brother to get different expressions out of him.
- Different backgrounds: I always like to change up the backgrounds a little bit. You never know how something is going to look once it is off the camera and enlarged. Plus a change of scenery can provide a good break.


One thing I really loved about doing my own bee smash cake was that I could include his big brother in some of the photos. They ended up being some of my favorite shots.


You do not have to be a professional photographer to get great cake smash photos. They can be done at home with some preparation and thought, just like this bee cake smash!
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